In ancient time, every town where early Jews resided there was a synagogue. The word Synagogue translated means ‘assembly.’ It was often made up of a large prayer hall, an ark holding the Torah scrolls, with other rooms that would enable study and socializing. It was the place where early Jews would gather together to pray, to study, to converse, to talk about what God was doing and what God will do. It was the place where one brought their children, where learning was held in high regard, discussion and knowledge were facilitated and protected. Ideas could be thrown out, worked on, and shared. Wisdom could be communicated freely to all those who listened and participated. The synagogue was the place where a Jew would encounter God and encounter others. Prayer and teaching walked side by side with debate and dialogue. It was the place where the spirit of God dwelled, where the righteous (the sincere) could find a space to grow.

The synagogue is a center, where a different kind of conversation could happen, a conversation that was not obstructed or hindered by the forces of the outside world. It was unique in that the ideas spoken about were not abstract concepts that only existed in the minds of the ideal, but rather the words of a story. It spoke of a people, a community, who met God and because they did, became his people. They knew this God through his instruction of a different way of living. One defined by love, sincerity, neighborliness, and care for fellow-man. In a world full of empires, war, poverty, and corruption it was the synagogue that stood as a light in a dark world.

In life, it is never the powerful that change the course of human history. Rather, it is when communities of people decide that their lives must be elevated, lived differently, lived better. It is when communities gather in assemblies and join in conversation, shared wisdom and knowledge. It is when those conversations instill in us a sense of a higher purpose, a vocation to change things, to transform the world around us. Change materializes when people decide that there is something more, that the life of the possible becomes the new standard. It lives and breathes in the bodies and aspirations of those groups of people who have decided that there is another way forward.

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It’s in the news…all around us. People are breaking up. Whether it’s celebrities like Joe Jonas & Ashley Greene or Justin Timberlake & Jessica Biel…break ups can be devastating. Breaking up is usually not easy because you have both invested your time, energy and many times your heart into relational real estate. It is a challenge many are going through. ”What do I do now?” Once one part of a team … and now flying solo.

One of the worst things people do is try to fill the gap too quickly. Like going to a party and sitting next to a guest all night. Maybe you had fun, but you gave none of the other people at the party any attention. During my travels, I’ve realized more and more that the world is very big. It offers many opportunities – you may not even know existed out there.

There are three things you should do after a break-up:

1st Consider
It is important to understand why a relationship does not work. Give yourself some time to reflect on whether there is anything you can do differently – that could lead to a more stable relationship next time.

2nd Work on yourself.
Many times we are so busy living life from our partner’s perspective that we lose our own way in life. Many good things have been achieved after a break up because it was beneficial to take care of yourself.

3rd Spend time on others.
Sometimes you can be so focused and committed to your relationship that your friendship circle gets smaller and smaller. What used to be a large collection of acquaintances can be reduced to just a few. You may sit there and think about what to do over the weekend, but instead of getting down maybe it’s time to spend time on someone else. Think about all the great people who are “alone” – not just on the weekends, but throughout the week. Now that you’re single, you might have some extra time to stretch out a hand to others and brighten their day.

“Some people are with you for a reason, some people are with you for a season, and some people are with you for a lifetime.”

By the way, focusing on others and expanding your circle is not just for single people. It is what we are made to do. Whether you are in a relationship that works, single or somewhere in between, you are the one in control of the decisions you make in life.

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